“Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion”.
Being single is smarter than being in the wrong relationship”.
Before we are head over heels in LOVE, which is no doubt the most wonderful feeling on the Earth, but there is nothing wrong about singleness. It is wise and healthy to stay tete-a-tete with yourself, which will not last forever. God knows your limit and will not give more you can bear. Your response should be: I am strong in decision to stay true to myself being persistent, patient, waiting for a lifetime love in purity. A firm decision to wait and stay true to the love of your life even though love is invisible at the moment is highly rewarded:
- YOU do not settle for something LESS;
- YOU do not take something that does not belong to YOU;
- YOU are having fun, developing your character, becoming STRONGER, expressing yourself the way you want it. I am not saying that our partners restrict us from being who we are but relationship is always a compromise where the second person’s opinions, wishes, moods, etc are taken into account. There is lack of time and pressure being influenced if you do not have a strong stamina.
Thrive to smile, be happy while on the path of singleness. If you can not find JOY in anything you do now alone you will not find it in relationship either. So, it is a perfect time to look deeper in who you are until God prepares his perfect love story. If anyone asks you: “Why are you still single?”, tell them: “It is better be alone than together with a wrong person.”
You are not alone. Look around. There are friends, families, people who you might help. Is not it fun to dream, make the first steps to make it come true while you are waiting for a person to accomplish your projects with? While I was waiting for Nick to appear in my life I being in Canada dreamed about going to California, doing video blogs to inspire and motivate everyone around me. My Mr. Right happened to wake me up and entered my world sooner than I ordered a ticket. But if he would not show up I would not stop living an exciting life. God knows what is best for us. He knew that my time has come to have Nick in my life. But He also saw my heart and it was 100% committed to stay true to myself and my values. Do not trade yourself for money, convenience. Do not act out of fear. Just stay true to yourself and have faith. Have faith that one day, you will be walking down the aisle. And if it does not happen believe that it is for the best.
I am in relationship now with a person who supports my passion for writing, photography, video making because I took time to discover who I am prior our meeting.