Is It OK to Pay for Woman

Is it ok to accept the presents from a boyfriend? Is it normal to pay for a girlfriend’s shoes if you end up in a shopping mall together? How many shoes is it ok to get at someone else expense? Such things are usually kept in secret. It seems intimidating to discuss a kind heart of a man who agrees to buy a purse, rings, food. “He is such a gentleman that is why he got me a perfume.” The truth is that a man is not obliged to give any presents or be financially responsible for a woman until she is his wife. It is not right when a girl is trying to manipulate you in order to get a  tangible thing. It proves that such a person is not mature and can not be favored to be ms Right. On the other hand, if a man wants to make a present or help financially he can and a woman is free from getting the presents back to him. If the money was borrowed from a man it should be paid back. Be careful and study your motivations: why do you desire to make a present? Are you waiting for a favor returned? Do you try to control a girl? I guess the answers are self explanatory. A wise man handle finance wisely. On the other side, Slavic women would expect to pay for a cup of coffee or a dinner if you go on a date. So, do not be greedy. It will not be viewed positively. But it is better not to pretend you are generous if you will not not make it a habit to pay for little things. Honesty id the best policy. Tell a girl that it is not typical for your culture to pay for her bus ticket. Try to explain why. She will be more open and friendly if you are honest with her.