When he or she wants to leave marriage because of a new, fresh, this time “true” love it is necessary to remember that love is a choice. Yes, it is true that feelings can change and excitement may fade with the time but it is your responsibility to deliberately choose to continually love a person you gave a vow to stand by in good and bad times. Difficulties in marriage usually are hidden in idolatry, anger or fears. It can be worked out. Every time you want to flee remember that you choice and gave promise once to love.
Remember that you have the power to hurt your spouse as no one else does. No one else knows his or her weaknesses as you do. Therefore be careful expressing harsh rude words, critical comments. They cut your spouse sharper than the finest knife. If he or she believes you hearing: “You are beautiful”, the same happens when you pronounce: “You are ugly.” This would is very hard to heal and you become responsible for it accountable before God.
Do not neglect to ask for help if it is needed to. There are many Christian counseling programs, which rescued many couple from loosing an opportunity to make a glorious diamond out of a broken marriage. What do you choose….?